Sunday, March 25, 2018

Communication? I Dont Know Her

So in a just a short amount of time I’ve learned that communication is the KEY to a healthy relationship. I’ve never experienced the true meaning of communication till I met my partner (Puma). I guess you can say that it was because I was a "people-pleaser" (still something that I struggle with). I would not communicate as well as I should've with my past partners in a way that it's healthy to do so. Lately I’ve learned “closed mouths don’t get fed”. In addition I was also reminded that I have a voice. That VOICE that I thought was lost within myself, was never lost! The issue at the time was that I was scared that my voice was going to enable people to judge me; Such as friends, families, and etc.. Communication also works hand-in-hand with friendship, setting up a play-session, as well as asking someone about their status (which IS OF GREAT IMPORTANCE).

One thing that I can say is that communication is something that takes time to master and grow into. You must be patient and always LISTEN when communicating...


"Great communication begins with connection. What makes us different from one another is so much less important than what makes us alike—we all long for acceptance and significance. When we recognize those needs in ourselves, we can better understand them in others, and that's when we can set aside our judgments and just hear." — Oprah